You Never Call! You Never Write!
A History of the Jewish Mother
Portrayed as either self-sacrificing or manipulative, the Jewish Mother - one of the best-known figures in popular culture - appears as a colossal figure in countless films, novels, tv programs, and stand-up comedy as well as psychological, anthropological, and historical studies.
But does this representation resemble the Jewish mothers we've truly known? What is the fit between image and reality, caricature and real character?
I wanted to tell the story of why the Jewish mother became such a stock character - a universal metaphor for the mother we love to hate. I wanted to show not only the nagging stereotype, but an alternative image based on love and respect.
To understand the Jewish mother image - how it arose, who it influenced, and how it has been constantly re-invented - is to understand a great deal about the history of Jewish life in America as well our complex cultural myths about motherhood.
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Press and Interviews
Never Mind, I'll Just Sit Here in the Dark (Slate.com slideshow)
The Real History of the Jewish Mother (interview in Lilith Magazine, PDF: 1.8M)
Massachusetts Foundation for the Humanities Interview (PDF: 758K)
Oxford University Press Flyer for You Never Call! You Never Write! (PDF: 3.3M)
Oxford University Press Blogs
The Mother's Day Gift I Want
Mother's Marathon
A Few Questions for Joyce Antler
Passover and Mom
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